Wingmate XOXO
Wingmate XOXO

The assistant that keeps you out of trouble.

Wingmate XOXO acts on your behalf between you and your partner, so the plans get made, the messages get through, and nothing slips through the cracks.

Join the waitlist

Be first in line when Wingmate XOXO launches.

Hutchinson, Kansas — serving couples across Kansas and the U.S.

TODAY, 5:12 PM
Tell Jim dinner's at 7.
Wingmate XOXOOn it. I sent Jim the plan and asked him to confirm.
Jim repliedGot it. I'll be there.
Delivered and confirmed
Wingmate XOXOHeads up: your anniversary is in 5 days. She keeps eyeing that pressed-flower necklace. Want me to grab it so you look like you planned ahead?
Rain at 6. Grab the jacket.Wingmate XOXO has your back
Practical from day one

The little things are handled.

Wingmate XOXO takes care of the quiet work that keeps two lives moving in the same direction.

01

Relay

“Tell Jim dinner's at 7.” Wingmate XOXO delivers it to his phone, gets a confirmation, and closes the loop for you.

02

Daily backup

Weather-aware outfit heads-ups, timezone-aware planning, and anniversaries and birthdays handled from start to finish.

03

Quiet coaching

Fresh date-night ideas when you need one, and a different perspective when a fight starts brewing.

No homework with feelings

A personal assistant that happens to make you better at the relationship stuff.

You do not need another app asking how connected you feel today. You need the practical things covered without another list to manage.

  • Useful on day one for practical reasons
  • Makes you look good with zero effort
  • Lives in your texts, with nothing new to keep up with
Who it's for

Couples where one person does all the remembering and is tired of it.

Hutchinson, Kansas

Built in Kansas, for real couple life.

Wingmate XOXO started in Hutchinson, Kansas — not in a big-city tech office. It was built by a Kansas couple who know what it is to juggle work, family, and each other, and still forget the one thing that mattered that day.

That is why it focuses on the practical stuff first: getting the message delivered, getting the plan confirmed, and catching the anniversary before it catches you. Kansas couples are first in line for launch, and couples everywhere else in the U.S. can join the same waitlist.

Join the Wingmate XOXO waitlist from Kansas or anywhere in the U.S.

More about Wingmate XOXO and why we built it

Common questions

What is Wingmate XOXO?

A practical AI assistant for couples. It relays messages between partners, confirms plans, and handles reminders for anniversaries, birthdays, and everyday details.

Where is Wingmate XOXO based?

Hutchinson, Kansas, in Reno County. It is launching first for couples in Kansas, then across the United States.

How do I join the waitlist?

Use the Wingmate XOXO waitlist page and complete the short form with your name and email. It takes about a minute.

Your backup is coming

Let Wingmate XOXO remember it.

Join the waitlist today and be first in line when the assistant built for real couple life launches.

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No relationship quizzes. No busywork. Just help.

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About Wingmate XOXO

A practical assistant for couples, built in Hutchinson, Kansas by a couple who kept forgetting the important stuff, so they built something that wouldn't.

Why Wingmate XOXO exists

It started with a familiar problem: in almost every couple, one person ends up doing all the remembering. The anniversaries, the dinner plans, the "tell him I'll be late" messages, the birthday that sneaks up every single year. That person gets tired of it, and the other one ends up in trouble for things they never even heard about.

Wingmate XOXO takes that job off of you. It acts on your behalf between you and your partner, so the plans get made, the messages get through, and nothing slips through the cracks.

What it actually does

Tell Wingmate XOXO “dinner's at 7” and it relays the message to your partner's phone, gets a confirmation, and closes the loop. It watches the calendar for anniversaries and birthdays and handles them from start to finish. It gives weather-aware heads-ups before you leave the house, suggests a date night when you are out of ideas, and offers a calmer perspective when a disagreement starts brewing.

It lives in your texts, so there is nothing new to download, learn, or keep up with.

What it is not

Wingmate XOXO is not a relationship app. No quizzes about how connected you feel today. No daily check-ins, no homework with feelings. It is a personal assistant that happens to make you better at the relationship stuff, because the practical things stop falling apart.

  • Practical first, useful on day one
  • Makes you look good with zero effort
  • Built for real couple life, not perfect couple life

Built in Kansas

Wingmate XOXO started in Hutchinson, Kansas, built by a Kansas couple juggling work, family, and each other. It launches first for couples in Kansas, then across the United States, because real couple life looks the same everywhere: busy, a little chaotic, and better when somebody remembers the details.

Sound like your household? Be first in line when Wingmate XOXO launches.

Join the waitlist

Hutchinson, Kansas — serving couples across Kansas and the U.S.

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Join the Wingmate XOXO waitlist.

Wingmate XOXO is almost ready. Built in Hutchinson, Kansas, it launches first for Kansas couples. Add your name and email and you'll be first in line when it launches.

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